Dani Shapiro

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I have been fighting the urge, lately, when asked how I'm doing, to use words like "overwhelmed" or "busy" or "crazed"--even though those are familiar feelings.  I've been on book tour for a month, and I have learned that anything is possible if, as they say in Twelve Step programs, I take it a day at a time.  I don't need to think about what will happen tomorrow, or next week, or next month--or even in the next hour.  If I do what is in front of me, if I focus on it, if I stay in the moment, then the rest of it falls away, and I am no longer overwhelmed, or busy, or crazed.

It so clearly all comes down to mindfulness.  To living in the moment, which is perhaps our greatest challenge in life.  When I am fully engaged in the moment, the moment expands infinitely.  When I am just here, right now, and nowhere else, there is a joy and an aliveness in that--no matter what is going on.  In yoga--in a pose called Warrior Two, or Virabhadrasana--it is possible to feel the physical manifestation of this.  If I become aware that I am leaning a bit forward (into the future) or backward (into the past) there is the possibility of correcting this, and moving toward proper alignment.  Straight up and down, balanced between future and past--right here, only here, in the infinite present.

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  • kentalbert

    A transformational moment in my life occurred listening to Eckart Tolle on "Speaking of Faith" on NPR. I had never heard him before, and in mid-stream he said something that made such clear sense to me, and yet seemed so different from anything I had heard before:
    "Stress occurs when I am not fulling willing to accept living in the present moment".
    With my tendency towards incessant thinking (my alcoholic mind, as they would say in AA) I decided I would find an exception to that statement.
    I could not.
    Stress was why I drank. Drinking gave me the illusion of happiness and comfort. Transient and counterfeit as it might be, it was the best solution I could manage, and I craved that place. Cut out the "middle man" alcohol, and meditative mindfulness now offers a direct sense of comfort. I have found my way "home".
    The best way to feel happy is to be happy.
    Until I learned to fully accept living in the present moment, I was sleepwalking through my life.

  • http://www.freemeditation.ca/ radha

    Actually to be in the moment is a natural actvity of parasympatetic nervous system and there is no need to practice postures to achieve it, to live in the moment is something we do from our birth (like breathing). Some people just forget it with the time! So enjoy it!

  • missbliss

    what a wonderfully stated reminder... I think of those small steps you described that led you to meeting your friend at the library book fair.

    all of these things that keep us so busy are our steps in making our own beautiful life.

    I don't like that overwhelmed feeling, either... sometimes after a really busy few days, it is enough for me to just putter and water my orchids, mindfully...

    namaste, Dani

    thanks for your work

  • missbliss

    what a wonderfully stated reminder... I think of those small steps you described that led you to meeting your friend at the library book fair.

    all of these things that keep us so busy are our steps in making our own beautiful life.

    I don't like that overwhelmed feeling, either... sometimes after a really busy few days, it is enough for me to just putter and water my orchids, mindfully...

    namaste, Dani

    thanks for your work