Dani Shapiro

On Multi-tasking

So my loyal readers of Moments of Being may have noticed that I have begun a new blog in which I continue Devotion.  I thought about combining the two blogs, but decided instead to maintain each one separately.  Writing, of course, is a practice, its own act of devotion.  But because Moments of Being is very much about the craft of writing and the psychological and emotional life of being a writer, and because I so love writing it, I didn't want to mix the two.  It strikes me, particularly today, that we writers need constant reminders that we live by our own peculiar rhythms and that we are, in many ways, outsiders, our noses pressed to the glass.  For the past couple of days I've been at a literary event in Florida, and have met a bunch of writers I hadn't known before--fascinating, warm, wonderful people, I recognize them all as having that quality peculiar to writers, which is to say, we spend most of our time alone in room, except when we're suddenly in front of audiences, trying to articulate what it is that we do.  We're introverts and performers.  Outsiders and teachers.  Requiring solitude but longing for company.

I keep copies of old Paris Review Interviews near my desk for the same reason that I so enjoyed the company of these new writer friends over this long weekend in Florida.  We're all in our tiny solitary rafts doing our work, living our lives--but it's good to remember that we're all in the same boat.

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  • Aaron Weiss
    I'm 91 years old and my wife is " 88. I/we loved your book,devotion"...read it twice: and found it very comforting having come from a very similar backgriud as yours. Since I'm facing the "evening" of life rather than the "after noon" your very insightful qwestioning was very provocative.I would LOVE to exchange thoughts with you if you have the time and interest..You are, indeed, a very love ly person.....Aaron Weiss
  • mmaren
    Delia - Thanks for the heads-up. This blog is still a work in progress from a technical standpoint... but now we've set up an RSS Feed. Let me know if you have any problems with it.

    The Webmaster
  • delialloyd
    actually-sorry. i just subscribed toyour comments, which I dont want to do. where do I subscribe to the blog itself?

    sorry for all the confusion!

    cheers
    delia
  • delialloyd
    never mind-just saw it! done.
  • delialloyd
    Hi Dani-I'd love to subscribe to your blog but don't see an easy way to do it. Do you have a link to your RSS feed?

    Cheers

    Delia Lloyd
    www.realdelia.com
  • Benecia Aronwald
    I so loved this... "We're introverts and performers. Outsiders and teachers. Requiring solitude but longing for company." Such a difficult balance to maintain and often times hard for others to understand. If you don't mind my editing "requiring solitude but longing for connection". Sitting alone at my desk this a.m., reading your blog, made me feel connected. Thank you for that. After all, isn't that what it's all about?
  • Danishapiro
    I'm so glad my blog made you feel connected. That's absolutely what it's all about!
  • Hello Ms. Shapiro,

    I'm criticizing your article in the LA Times on Sunday. You can read about it at my blog. The blog itself is growing in popularity, so it might be worth checking out.

    I do sort of plug your book, "Devotion", and I tell my readers that I've downloaded the sample on Kindle (which I have), and that I think it's pretty good (which I do). I even give a link to the Amazon site for it.

    Take care, Ms. Shapiro.

    Sincerely,

    Gordon Jerome
    A literary Experience
    http://literaryexperience.blogspot.com
  • Danishapiro
    I appreciate your plugging my book, and have no problem with your criticism of my essay in the LAT. Thanks for writing.
  • I salute your decision to stay focused within each blog. I recently made the same decision, to blog the process of writing a specific memoir I'm writing, separately from my blog about life writing in general.

    Your description of the life of a writer -- nose against window, solitary time, introvers/teachers, outsider/performer -- that's ME! Thank for for nailing it.
  • Danishapiro
    Thanks, Sharon. We writers need to remember that we may live solitary lives, but in a way we're all connected by the strange and beautiful and solitary way we spend our days.
  • Hi Dani,
    I couldn't make your Books and Books reading, but I asked them to have you sign a copy to me. Went in to get it yesterday, but somehow they hadn't gotten the message to you. Ah, well, personalized or not, it is such an enjoyable experience; I'm about halfway through and I'd gulp it all down if it weren't for eyestrain, which always slows me down. I don't know if you read my memoir, but I also hated it when people would tell me "Things happen for a reason," because it made me feel as if I were being punished instead of experiencing a random act and using my own intellect, my own sense of personhood, to make meaning--which I have always tried to do. You write so beautifully; I love the little pieces. I wonder if these collage patterns are emerging for some of us as a result of motherhood, of the broken bits of time, all those quiet details--individually, at least--about being part of a home that, collectively, create such a roar. Anyway, I am sorry to have missed you, but I wanted you to know I haven't missed "Devotion," and I'm enjoying it so much.
    Manette Ansay
  • Danishapiro
    I haven't been a very good blog correspondent lately -- so consumed with the publication of Devotion! But this blog really feels like home to me, and I hope you'll visit often, Manette. It's so lovely to reconnect with you. And it means so much to me that you liked Devotion.
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